Tough Love Letters

a MTHRFTHR Blog

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Parents can Revolutionize the Workplace

And make it better….So, why not? The election has electrified the American people. We are pumped, ready to work hard, and make ourselves greater. Issue: Companies lack family friendly centered policy and structure which inherently negatively impacts families and discourages employees from starting families. Low family moral equals a weak society which returns poor revenue.…
2024 Election – Parents Voted

Issue: Parents have been governed under a political party the last 4 years that have pushed toxic and, arguably, immoral cultural politics…and they were over it. Paradigm Shift: Parents voted for their rights AND their children’s rights. Half the population received a reckoning on what American families actually value. They made a statement on the…
World Shocked They Can’t Fix Families.

Even the romanticized Nordic countries with all their glorious policy focused on parents and children, even with all that at the cost of higher tax rates, their people are still choosing NOT to have kids. A phenomenon trending globally. The Wall Street Journal dropped this bombshell of an article: Worldwide Efforts to Reverse the Baby…
I pronounce you, Husband & Mom?

First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes the baby in the baby carriage…then comes… There is a phenomenon that happens in the pressures of a marriage and child rearing. The honeymoon of the early years of marriage wear off, maybe you stop dating each other. You stop communicating overall, if you ever did that…
Peter Pan Chose Fatherhood

Dear Fam, It seems today, that there are lots of folks slipping in to a state of Neverland. In a not too distant past, growing up included getting married and having kids to the general population. In a few short decades we are told to not dream about marriage or starting a family. We are…
The Government is Not Your Parent

Stop treating it like it is. Stop raising children to believe it is. How did we get here? Parents gave an inch, the government took a mile. Parents have slowly relinquished one responsibility after another of parenthood, allowing different facets of the government to slip in and replace it. Why are there less family units…